I am pretty sure you all have already heard about the action #metoo (women confess that they were victims of sexual harassment) and different reactions to the issue.
Shame on all those who justify horrible situations.
THIS IS YOU WHO SETS YOUR LIMITS AND BOUNDARIES. The sense of comfort and security of your own self is defined by yourself and nobody ever has the right to tell you what sexual, erotic or quasi-regular behaviour is and push YOUR limits and boundaries to the level of sexual harassment.
Don’t be afraid to say NO whenever you feel that this is too much. NOBODY is allowed to play on your fear. Never.
I am very honoured to live among women aware of their rights. Those women are so strong and brave that every man should learn how to be strong and brave in the same way without being a dickhead, abusing children and women sexually, as well as being a bad, sexually and psychologically unfullfilled human.